The Prophet’s Way of Correcting People’s Mistakes

Source: blog.islamiconlineuniversity.com

By: Nasmira Firdous

We live in an age where judging others has become the norm and mocking people for their mistakes has become a huge pastime. While some of us might do it unintentionally, others might fall into this out of ignorance or even arrogance. Calling ourselves the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad  comes with certain responsibilities. One such responsibility is correcting people’s mistakes.

Calling ourselves the Ummah of Prophet Muhammad  comes with certain responsibilities. One such responsibility is correcting people’s mistakes.

Quite often in this quest of learning the deen and implementing it in our lives, we become over judgemental of our own brothers and sisters. Instead of correcting their mistakes, we pass fatwas, turning them further away from the beauty of this deen. It is important to understand and realize that this deen is easy and beautiful, and correcting people’s mistakes should also be done in a beautiful manner.

“There has certainly been for you in the Messenger of Allah an excellent pattern (example) for anyone whose hope is in Allah and the Last Day and [who] remembers Allah often.” ¹

The meaning of Sabr (Patience)

Source: everymuslim.co.za

By: Ayub Hamid

It implies patience, forbearance, perseverance, determination, fortitude, constancy and steadfastness. Sabr assumes different dimensions depending upon which aspect of life is the point of reference:

THE TOP TEN MISTAKES POTENTIAL HOME-BUYERS MAKE WHEN PURCHASING A HOME

Source: muslimmatters.org

For most people, purchasing a home is the largest financial transaction that they’ll ever make. The purchase decision is without a doubt, one that must be made with careful thought and attention to detail. A potential homebuyer has many things to consider when purchasing a home. A Muslim homebuyer has the added concern of finding Sharia -Compliant financing. With the help of our Guidance Residential Account Executives, who have decades of experience working in the home-finance and residential real estate industries, we’ve compiled a list of the top ten mistakes homebuyers tend to make.

20 SIGNS YOU’RE A SPIRITUALLY HEALTHY PERSON

By: Jade Small

Source: http://www.the-open-mind.com/20-signs-youre-a-spiritually-healthy-person/

When you meet someone who is spiritually healthy, you’re immediately drawn to that person. You feel good just by being around them. These people are magnets for happiness, freedom and generosity, and have a unique ability to enjoy the present moment.

The only way you can achieve true spiritual satisfaction is by following your heart’s desires. Here are some clues that you can use to stay on the right path.

Here are 20 signs you’re spiritually healthy:

1. You stepped out of the victim role and now play the game of designing your destiny.

2. You love your life because you’re living your soul’s purpose.

3. You feel like you’re contributing and serving with generosity.

4. You got off the emotional roller coaster, and your emotions feel like smooth waves on a clear day most of the time.

5. You catch yourself when you judge others and realize that what you’re judging is intimately related to your own self-acceptance.

6. You don’t fear making the wrong decision, because you’re aware that there can always be a spiritual lesson.

7. You understand that freedom and happiness are qualities you cultivate from within, and the more you work on them, the more they grow.

8. You no longer feel like you need to hide out of fear of judgment; you are the full expression of yourself personally and professionally.

9. You spend time in silence daily and crave it when you miss a day, because you feel like something is “off.”

You can’t love if you can’t forgive. You can’t forgive if you can’t accept mistakes. You can’t accept mistakes if you can’t be humble.

 You can’t love if you can’t forgive. You can’t forgive if you can’t accept mistakes. You can’t accept mistakes if you can’t be humble.
 No se puede amar si no se puede perdonar. No se puede perdonar si usted no puede aceptar los errores. No se puede aceptar errores si no se puede ser humilde.
 Je kunt niet liefhebben als je niet kunt vergeven. Je kunt niet vergeven als je geen fouten kunt accepteren. Je kunt geen fouten accepteren als je niet nederig kan zijn.
 Vous ne pouvez pas aimer si vous ne pouvez pas pardonner. Vous ne pouvez pas pardonner si vous ne pouvez pas accepter les erreurs. Vous ne pouvez pas accepter des erreurs si vous ne pouvez pas être humble.
 Man kann nicht lieben, wenn Sie nicht verzeihen können. Sie können nicht verzeihen, wenn man nicht Fehler zu akzeptieren. Sie können keine Fehler zu akzeptieren, wenn man nicht bescheiden sein.
 Nǐ kěyǐ bù ài, rúguǒ nǐ bùnéng yuánliàng. Nǐ bùnéng yuánliàng, rúguǒ nǐ bùnéng jiēshòu de cuòwù. Nǐ bùnéng jiēshòu de cuòwù, rúguǒ nǐ bùnéng qiānxū.
 Du kan inte älska om du inte kan förlåta. Du kan inte förlåta om du inte kan acceptera misstag. Du kan inte acceptera misstag om du inte kan vara ödmjuk.
 Vy ne mozhete lyubit’ , yesli ty ne mozhesh’ prostit’ . Vy ne mozhete prostit’ , yesli vy ne mozhete prinyat’ oshibki . Vy ne mozhete prinyat’ oshibki , yesli vy ne mozhete byt’ skromnym.
 Eğer affet olamaz eğer sevemez. Eğer hataları kabul edemez eğer affedemem. Eğer alçakgönüllü olamaz eğer hataları kabul edemez.
 Non si può amare se non si può perdonare. Non si può perdonare se non potete accettare gli errori. Non si può accettare gli errori se non si può essere umili.
 Anda tidak bisa mencintai jika Anda tidak bisa memaafkan. Anda tidak bisa memaafkan jika Anda tidak dapat menerima kesalahan. Anda tidak dapat menerima kesalahan jika Anda tidak bisa bersikap rendah hati.

Impatience is not your friend, mistakes, anger & woe, will follow you like a shadow, unless patience becomes your companion.

 Impatience is not your friend, mistakes, anger & woe, will follow you like a shadow, unless patience becomes your companion.
 La impaciencia no es su amigo, los errores, la ira y la aflicción, te seguirá como una sombra, a no ser que la paciencia se convierte en su compañera.
 Ongeduld is niet je vriend, fouten, woede en wee, zal je volgen als een schaduw, tenzij geduld wordt uw metgezel.
 Impatience n’est pas votre ami, erreurs, la colère et le malheur, vous suivra comme une ombre, à moins que la patience devient votre compagnon.
 Ungeduld ist nicht Ihr Freund, Fehler, Ärger und Leid, werden Sie wie ein Schatten zu folgen, es sei denn, die Geduld wird dein Begleiter.
 Jízào shì bùshì nǐ de péngyǒu, shīwù, fènnù hé róngrǔ yǔ gòng, huì gēnzhe nǐ xiàng yīgè yǐngzi, chúfēi nàixīn chéngwéi nǐ de tóngbàn.
 Otålighet är inte din vän, misstag, ilska och ve, kommer att följa dig som en skugga, om inte tålamod blir din följeslagare.
 Neterpeniye ne yavlyayetsya vashim drugom , oshibki , gnev i gore , budet sledovat’ za vami kak ten’ , yesli terpeniye ne stanet vashim sputnikom.
 Sabırsızlık sabır arkadaşınız olur sürece hatalar, öfke ve keder, bir gölge gibi sizi takip edecek, senin arkadaşın değil.
 L’impazienza non è tuo amico, gli errori, rabbia e dolore, ti seguirà come un’ombra, a meno che la pazienza diventa il tuo compagno.
 Ketidaksabaran bukan teman Anda, kesalahan, kemarahan & celaka, akan mengikuti Anda seperti bayangan, kecuali kesabaran menjadi pendamping Anda.

Nouman Ali Khan: Lessons From the Past (Quran Weekly)

 Allah teaches us about the nations of our past so that we don’t repeat their mistakes.
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There are no mistakes, when you treat everything as a lesson in becoming wiser at the art of living.

 There are no mistakes, when you treat everything as a lesson in becoming wiser at the art of living.
 No hay errores, cuando usted trata todo como una lección en ser más sabio en el arte de vivir.
 Er zijn geen fouten, als je alles te behandelen als een les in steeds wijzer op de kunst van het leven.
 Il n’ya pas d’erreurs, quand vous traitez tout comme une leçon de devenir plus sage à l’art de vivre.
 Es gibt keine Fehler, wenn Sie sich als Lektion in klüger bei der Kunst des Lebens zu behandeln alles.
 Méiyǒu cuòwù, dāng nǐ bǎ yīqiè dōu zài biàn de gèng cōngmíng zài shēnghuó de yìshù kè.
 Det finns inga misstag, när du behandlar allt som en lektion i att bli klokare på konsten att leva.
 Там нет ошибок, когда вы ко всему как урок в становлении мудрее в искусстве жизни.
 Eğer yaşam sanatı akıllıca olmak bir ders olarak her şeyi tedavi sırasında herhangi bir hata vardır.
 Non ci sono errori, quando si trattano tutto come una lezione a diventare più saggio l’arte di vivere.
 Tidak ada kesalahan, ketika Anda memperlakukan segala sesuatu sebagai pelajaran untuk menjadi lebih bijaksana pada seni hidup.

There is so much to learn, you must not beat yourself up because you make mistakes, you are learning like the rest of us.

 There is so much to learn, you must not beat yourself up because you make mistakes, you are learning like the rest of us.
 Hay tanto que aprender, no hay que castigue porque se cometen errores, que está aprendiendo, como el resto de nosotros.
 Er is zoveel te leren, moet je jezelf niet omdat je fouten maakt, je leert als de rest van ons.
 Il ya tellement de choses à apprendre, vous ne devez pas vous battre parce que vous faites des erreurs, vous apprenez comme le reste d’entre nous.
 Es gibt so viel zu lernen, muss man nicht schlagen Sie sich, weil Sie Fehler machen, werden Sie wie der Rest von uns zu lernen.
 Yǒu tài duō dōngxi yào xué, nǐ yīdìng bùyào yīnwèi nǐ fàncuò, nǐ zhèngzài xuéxí xiàng wǒmen qíyú de zìjǐ dǎbàile.
 Det finns så mycket att lära, får du inte slå dig själv för att du gör fel, du lär dig som resten av oss.
 Sushchestvuyet tak mnogo , chtoby uznat’ , vy ne dolzhny bit’ sebya , potomu chto vy delayete oshibki , vy izuchayete , kak i ostal’nyye iz nas.
 Eğer bize geri kalanı gibi öğrenme, hata yapmak, çünkü öğrenmek için o kadar çok şey var, kendinizi dövdü olmamalıdır.
 C’è così tanto da imparare, non devi battere te stesso, perché si commettono errori, si sta imparando come il resto di noi.
 Ada begitu banyak belajar, Anda tidak harus menyalahkan diri sendiri karena Anda membuat kesalahan, Anda belajar seperti sisa dari kita.