Source: Happy Muslim Family and Friends
Marriage is a highly recommended Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (saws).
The purpose of marriage in Islam is to increase the Muslim community and not only to enjoy pleasure as Muhammad (saw) said; “Multiply your wives, multiply your children and I shall be proud of you on the Day ofJudgement.”
Although marriage is encouraged in Islam, Allah and his MessengerMuhammad (saw) haven’t left us to our rationality to discover what marriage entails and what things make a successful marriage. Thefollowing few pages highlight what makes a happy marriage based on the Qu’ran and Sunnah and how the husband and wife can gain each othersheart.
A husband and a wife have a relationship with each other, with their own parents, and their own siblings. One of these relationships should not superimpose on another relationship and take you away from fulfilling its rights and responsibilities. A new episode of “That’s Messed Up” will be available every Monday.
By: Hazrat Maulana Ahmad Sadeq Desai
Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:
“The noblest of you are those who are the noblest to their families”
“Verily, among the most perfect Believers in Imaan, are those who are best in character and kindest to their wives.”
Even lifting a morsel of food to the mouth of the wife has been given the significance of ‘ibaadat (worship). It is an act of love by which the husband derives thawaab (reward in the Hereafter).
Lecturers: Imam Anwar Al-Awlaki, Sheikh Uthman Lateef, Sheikh Shady, Sheikh Omar Suleiman and Bilal Asad.
Firoun [Pharaoh] Saw A Dream, He Was Told That It Means That There Will Be A Man From The Children Of Israel Who Will Take Away Your Kingdom And Will Destroy Your Army And Your People, And Firoun Heard That Interpretation, He Said: Easy; We’ll Take Care Of That, Any Child That Is Born, Kill Him, Allah Says That The Family Firoun Picked Him Up And Then the Wife Of Firoun, Asiya AS, What Did She Say: A Source Of Joy For Me And You, Don’t Kill Him, And Asiya Is The One Who Raised Up Sayyidina Musa, So For Him She Was Like A Second Mother, But Just Imagine How It Must Have Been For Her At This Moment Of Time, A Woman Living With A Man Who Believes Himself To Be God, And She Knows Of Course All Of His Imperfections Because She’s His Wife, She Lived With Firoun, She Knows Who Firoun Is Like The Rest Of The Human Being And He Is Not Capable Of Anything More Than What The Creation Of Allah Is Capable Of, So He’s Living In The Palace Of Firoun, She Is The Queen, She Has Everything A Women Seeking Dunya Can Ask For, She Has Everything That Dunya Can Offer, But The Thing That Was Missing There Was Islam And Imaan, She Believed In Allah SWT And The Message Of Sayyidina Musa, O Firoun I Have Disbelieved In You, I Don’t Care What You’re Gonna Do And I Believe In The Message Of Musa And Harun The Lord Of All The Worlds, Firoun Said Do You Know What I Will Do Too You, He Was Shocked, She Said: I Know And I Don’t Care, Subhanallah, I Don’t Care Do What You Want, Asiya Was An Example Of Bravery And Courage And She Did Not Wield Under The Pressure Of Firoun, She Was Crucified And In Some Reports She Was Stretched Out On The Floor And She Would Be Whipped And She Would BE Tortured And Persecuted, The Angels Shaded Her, The Angels Shaded And She Laughed And Firoun Said To The Guards, Look How Crazy This Women Is, And She Laughed And She Laughed And She Laughed Until Firoun Got Frustrated And He Said: Do You Know What This Women Is Not Coming Back To Her Senses, Go To The Highest Cliff, Tie Her Under There And Push Off A Boulder So That Would Smash Her Body In To Pieces.
There are those who want to distract the Muslima from meeting her noble obligations of following the religion of Allah SWT as commanded by the Prophet Muhammad SAWS and becoming successful in the Hereafter.
Shaytan and his army use many methods to ruin a Muslima and evict her from her rightful place in Paradise, as he had done with her mother, Hawaa (Eve).
1. Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for the best clothing? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that the Prophet (PBUH) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.
2. Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.