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Why Am I Still Not Married? The Silver Lining of Being Single

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By: Sadaf Farooqi

Source: http://www.onislam.net/

I remember the chagrin and inner turmoil of being single and hopeful of marriage, back during my early twenties!

Even after almost a decade of marriage, I still vividly remember the constant roller-coaster of emotions that the heart experiences every time a marriage proposal is negotiated.

One thinks: Is this the one?

Will this family/person be my future spouse/in-laws?

Sometimes the marriage negotiation process painstakingly goes on for months, only to culminate in nothing. Up go one’s dreams, hopes and aspirations about the future into thin air! Once again, it is back to square one.

Whether a young, single Muslim is a man or woman, if they are ardently desirous of completing half their Deen, the anguish and frustration (including sexual angst) they feel whenever another year of their life passes by without any impending nuptials on the horizon is, contrary to gender-discriminating cultural myths, similarly disconcerting and unnerving.

Wherever in the world they might be, as the years pass and the number of fruitless marriage proposals grows, the singleton might begin to feel despondent and worn down by this trial of patience in their quest of completing half their Deen.

So what should one tell a young forlorn wannabe bride or groom when they justifiably ask: “Why am I still unmarried?”

First of All: There Is Nothing Wrong with You!

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Sheikh Abu Hamzah: Friday Night Lecture – Law & Order (Video)

info-pictogram1 A important video for all Muslims, whether you are Married or Single the information in this Video is Vital! It will help you in regards to getting married and help & open your eyes, mind and heart for those already married.

After a thousand tears of joy at committing sin, a single tear of sincere repentance washes it all.

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Making a hundred friends is not a miracle. The miracle is to make a single friend who will stand by you even when hundreds are against you.

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