Seriously: Michelle Obama Dances with a Turnip to Lil Jon’s “Turn Down For What” (Video)

 Michelle Obama Dances with a Turnip to Lil Jon’s “Turn Down For What.” Seriously.

You must be easily fooled, gullible & naive if you seriously believe Islam oppresses women

By: BrotherEddie 

Simple facts: Islam is the fastest growing way of life in the world even with all the false negative propaganda against it, and more women are entering ISLAM than men. (Now that’s amazing!)

Why is that??? because they like to be oppressed??? Of course not stop being naive!

Before thinking how a quote, tweet or status is relevant for others let us seriously consider how much we need it for our own improvement.

 Before thinking how a quote, tweet or status is relevant for others let us seriously consider how much we need it for our own improvement.
 Antes de pensar en cómo una cotización, pío o condición es relevante para los demás nos dejaron seriamente en cuenta lo mucho que necesitamos para nuestra propia mejora.
 Alvorens te denken hoe een citaat, tweet of de status is van belang voor anderen laat ons serieus overwegen hoeveel we nodig hebben voor onze eigen verbetering.
 Avant de penser à la façon dont un devis, bip ou le statut est pertinente pour d’autres nous laissent envisager sérieusement combien nous avons besoin pour notre propre amélioration.
 Bevor darüber nachzudenken, wie ein Zitat, Tweet oder Status ist relevant für andere lassen Sie uns ernsthaft überlegen, wie viel wir brauchen es für unsere eigenen Verbesserung.
 Zài sīkǎo rúhé bàojià, míngjiào huò zhuàngtài shì xiāngguān de tārén, ràng wǒmen rènzhēn kǎolǜ, wǒmen duōme xūyào tā wèi wǒmen zìjǐ tígāo.
 Innan tänka hur en offert, tweet eller status är relevant för andra låter oss allvarligt överväga hur mycket vi behöver det för vår egen förbättring.
 Prezhde chem dumat’ , kak tsitata , chirikat’ ili status imeyet znacheniye dlya drugikh davayte ser’yezno rassmotret’ , skol’ko nam eto nuzhno dlya nashego sobstvennogo sovershenstvovaniya.
 Bir alıntı, tweet veya diğerleri bizi ciddiye biz kendi iyileştirme için ne kadar çok ihtiyacım düşünelim için durum ilgili ne düşünüyor önce.
 Prima di pensare come una citazione, tweet o stato è rilevante per gli altri ci permettono di prendere seriamente in considerazione di quanto ne abbiamo bisogno per il nostro miglioramento.
 Sebelum berpikir bagaimana kutipan, tweet atau status relevan bagi orang lain mari kita serius mempertimbangkan berapa banyak kita membutuhkannya untuk perbaikan kita sendiri.

Ten ways to avoid marrying the wrong person

The following is a useful resource we can use to help us figure out what sort of person we should marry, and can also come in handy when asking questions!

There is a right way and a wrong way to get to know someone for marriage. The wrong way is to get caught up in the excitement and nuance of a budding relationship and in the process completely forget to ask the critical questions that help determine compatibility. One of the biggest mistakes that many young Muslims make is rushing into marriage without properly and thoroughly getting to know someone.

A common myth is that the duration of a courtship is an accurate enough measure of how compatible two people are. The logic follows that the longer you speak with someone, the better you will know them. The problem with that premise is that no consideration is given to how that time is spent.

Increasingly, young Muslim couples are engaging in “halal dating,” which is basically socializing with each other in the company of friends and/or family. This includes going out to dinner, watching a movie, playing some sport or other leisure activity, etc. Depending on the family or culture, conversations are either minimal & chaperoned or worse, unrestricted and unsupervised. When you consider these limitations it makes one wonder when exactly, if ever at all, would the critical conversations take place? Unfortunately, for many, the answer is never and they live to suffer the consequences. If you or someone you know is in the “getting to know someone” phase, the following guide offers advice on exactly what to look for and avoid:

1) Do Not Marry Potential: 

Oftentimes men consider marrying a woman hoping she never changes while a woman considers marrying a man she hopes she can change. This is the wrong approach on both accounts. Don’t assume that you can change a person after you’re married to them or that they will reach their potential. There is no guarantee, after all, that those changes will be for the better. In fact, it’s often for the worse. If you can’t accept someone or imagine living with them as they are then don’t marry them. These differences can include a number of things such as ideological or practical differences in religion, habits, hygiene, communication skills, etc.

2) Choose Character over Chemistry: 

While chemistry and attraction are no doubt important, character precedes them both. A famous quote follows, “Chemistry ignites the fire, but character keeps it burning.” The idea of falling “in love” should never be the sole reason for marrying someone; it is very easy to confuse infatuation and lust for love. The most important character traits to look for include humility, kindness, responsibility, & happiness. Here’s a breakdown of each trait:

1. Humility: 
The humble person never makes demands of people but rather always does right by them. They put their values and principles above convenience and comfort. They are slow to anger, are modest, and avoid materialism.

2. Kindness:
The kind person is the quintessential giver. They seek to please and minimize the pain of others. To know if a person is a giver, observe how they treat their family, siblings, and parents. Do they have gratitude towards their parents for all that they’ve done for them? If not, then know that they will never appreciate what you do for them. How do they treat people they don’t have to be kind towards (i.e. waiters, sales associates, employees, etc)? How do they spend their money? How do they deal with anger; their own anger and their reaction to someone else’s anger?

3. Responsibility: 
A responsible person has stability in their finances, relationships, job, and character. You can you rely on this person and trust what they say.

4. Happiness:
A happy person is content with their portion in life. They feel good about themselves and good about their life. They focus on what they have rather than on what they don’t have. They very rarely complain.