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Why tech CEOs limit their children’s technology use
By: Nick Bilton
Source: nytimes.com/
When Steve Jobs was running Apple, he was known to call journalists to either pat them on the back for a recent article or, more often than not, explain how they got it wrong. I was on the receiving end of a few of those calls. But nothing shocked me more than something Mr. Jobs said to me in late 2010 after he had finished chewing me out for something I had written about an iPad shortcoming.
For a marriage to be successful , it does not have to be problem-free. Every household has its problems.
For a marriage to be successful , it does not have to be problem-free. Every household has its problems.
Para que un matrimonio tenga éxito, no tiene que estar libre de problemas. Cada familia tiene sus problemas.
Voor een huwelijk om succesvol te zijn, is het niet hoeft te worden zonder problemen. Ieder huishouden heeft zijn problemen.
Pour qu’un mariage soit réussi, il n’a pas à être sans problème. Chaque ménage a ses problèmes.
Für eine Ehe erfolgreich zu sein, muss es nicht um Problemfrei sein. Jeder Haushalt hat seine Probleme.
Duìyú hūnyīn shì chénggōng de, tā bìng méiyǒu chéngwéi wú wèntí. Měi jiā měi hù dōu yǒu zìjǐ de wèntí.
För att ett äktenskap ska lyckas, men det behöver inte vara problemfritt. Varje hushåll har sina problem.
Dlya braka , chtoby byt’ uspeshnym , on ne dolzhen byt’ bez problem. Kazhdaya sem’ya imeyet svoi problemy.
Bir evlilik başarılı olması için, bu sorun-özgür olmak zorunda değildir. Her ev kendi sorunları vardır.
Per un matrimonio per avere successo, non deve essere senza problemi. Ogni famiglia ha i suoi problemi.
Untuk pernikahan untuk menjadi sukses, tidak harus bebas masalah. Setiap rumah tangga memiliki masalah.
Tips on Building a Productive Muslim Household
This is the first of a series of 3 articles providing you with successful tips on how to make your family life and home more productive. This series will explain 21 ways to help your household become happier, more peaceful and thus, more productive. We will begin with the first 7 tips that will contribute to a productive household, In sha Allah.
What is one of the greatest accomplishments one can achieve that produces a benefit for the individual, his family and the community at large? It is the realization of a happy, peaceful, and productive household.
Although having a productive household is one of the most fulfilling and beneficial aspects of this life, it is often neglected as a goal to aspire towards. One is indeed remiss in failing to make a happy and content household a primary goal. It is well known that strong productive families are the foundation of healthy civilizations. Sound families are also what help make individuals within families healthy mentally and emotionally. It is quite apparent that a productive household is one of the primary goals one should wish to attain. It should also be an ambition towards which one directs his or her children as they mature.
What are some of the ways in which you can achieve a happy productive household? Here are 7 ways you can start today!
1. Put Allah First in Your Life
If you do not have a good relationship with Allah , you will not have a healthy relationship with your family members. Allah tells us how to behave with one another. The Prophet tells and shows us how to behave with one another. If we do not fear Allah and have the hope for His reward, we will have little motivation to do some of the prescribed recommendations from Qur’an and Sunnah, which contribute to a more enjoyable household. This is particularly the case when the requirements or suggestions do not suit our personal goals or interests.
Putting Allah first in your life empowers you to think of every situation in the context of His guidance and in terms of the akhira. This means you pick your battles wisely, behave with tolerance and seek to understand before being understood.
2. Be Forgiving
Allah says in Quran:
“Whoever pardons and makes reconciliation — his reward is [due] from Allah.” [Qur’an: Chapter 42, Verse 40]
“… and let them pardon and overlook. Would you not like that Allah should forgive you?” [Qur’an: Chapter 24, Verse 22]
The ones who can hurt you the most are your loved ones. They are the ones to whom your heart is attached and you are closest. Because of this close relationship, you expect and desire more from them than you would from distant acquaintances or strangers. For these reasons, when you are slighted by a loved one, the pain is more severe. However, when you keep in mind that your forgiveness of their mistakes is not for them, but for you, by gaining Allah’s pleasure and your reward from Him, the task of forgiving becomes much easier.
Maintaining a forgiving disposition enhances your productivity because you prevent your mind from becoming a war zone for past slights.