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Undoubtedly the jinn can have a harmful effect on humans

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Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) said:

“Undoubtedly the jinn can have a harmful effect on humans, and they could even kill them. They may harm a person by throwing stones at him, or by trying to terrify him, and other things that are proven in the Sunnah or indicated by real events. It was reported that the Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) gave permission to one of his Companions to go to his wife during one of the military campaigns — I think it was the campaign of al-Khandaq — as he was a young man who had recently got married. When he reached his house, he found his wife standing at the door, and he objected to that. She said to him, ‘Go inside,’ so he went inside and found a snake curled up on the bed. He had a spear with him, so he stabbed it with the spear until it died, and at the same instant as the snake died the man also died. It was not known which of them died first, the snake or the man. When the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) heard of that, he forbade killing the harmless kinds of snakes that are found in houses, apart from those which are maimed or are streaked and malignant.

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How to Stop Masturbation

Masturbation is defined as the manual stimulation of the male or female genitals, not by sexual intercourse, designed to produce an orgasm. Masturbation is totally forbidden in Shari’ah.

One of the most humiliating problems that the constant male masturbator suffers from when he attempts to have sexual relations is premature ejaculation or the failure to maintain an erection. When a person is masturbating, he tends to reach his orgasm as quickly as possible but in sexual intercourse, he normally has to attempt to control his excitement which can impose a great strain on those who indulge in self abuse over a lengthy period.

Those who achieve insufficient satisfaction from sexual intercourse and return to masturbation or never give it up suffer a great torment. Sex life is empty for them, which leads to many more problems, marital disputes, divorce, etc.

Therefore, people who continuously masturbate lose out all round. The physical pleasure becomes reduced to a natural act like urinating or excreting and at the back of their minds there is an awareness that they are missing out on the real pleasures of life. No adult can honestly claim to masturbate without a guilty feeling of complete uselessness. Masturbation is merely an exhaustive rather than constructive undertaking resulting in nothing but total loss. Once orgasm has been achieved, there is nothing left except a feeling of complete emptiness.

Steps in overcoming masturbation

Be assured that you can be cured of your difficulty. Many have been, both male and female. And you can also be cured if you determine that it must be so. If you want to give it up, you need will power and determination. Rasulullah [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] said, ‘The Niyyat of a believer is better than the act.’

This determination is the first step. That is where we begin. Firstly, you must decide that you will end this practice and when you make that decision, the problem will be greatly reduced at once. But it must be more than a hope or a wish more than knowing that it is good for you. You must realize that this is a great evil and you have to want to give it up.

It must be actually a decision. If you truly make up your mind that you will be cured, then you will have the strength to resist any tendencies which you may have and any temptations which may come to you. Ask Allah to help you and give you strength and steadfastness to succeed.

After you have made this decision then observe the following specific guidelines.

Guidelines 

1. First step is to realize that you are violating Allah’s command and you are bringing upon yourself a life long destruction and harm.

2. Never touch the intimate parts of your body unnecessarily.

3. Avoid being alone as much as possible. Find good company and stay in this good company. Remember, an idle mind is the devil’s (Shaytaan) workshop.

4. If you are associated with other persons having this same problem, you must break off their friendship. Never associate with other people having the same weakness. Don’t suppose that both of you will quit together, you never will. You must get away from people of that kind. Just to be in their presence will keep your problem foremost in your mind.

The problem must be taken out of your mind for that is where it really exists. Your mind must be on other and more wholesome things. It is mentioned in a Hadith that a person is upon the way of his friend. (Bukhari, Tirmizi)

5. When you bath, do so as quick as possible.

6. When in bed, if that is where you have your problem for the most part, dress yourself for the night so securely that you cannot easily touch your vital parts so that it would be difficult and time consuming for you to remove those clothes. By the time you started to remove protective clothing, you would have sufficiently controlled your thinking and the temptation would leave you.
If the temptation seems overpowering while you are in bed, engage in something useful. The purpose behind this suggestion is that you focus your mind on something else. You are the subject of your thoughts, so to speak.

7. Never look at pornographic material.

8. The attitude of the individual has an effect on how easy it is to overcome. It is essential that a firm commitment be made to control this habit. The person must first realize the evil of this act. Secondly he must understand the reason for this behavior.

After these 2 steps, the individual needs to become sensitive to the situations and conditions which may cause a person to commit this vile act. Hence a person must guard himself from anything, which may trigger a desire for this act. By following these steps, a person gains the ability to gain victory from this act, hence the power to control this filthy practice is developed. Remember you need also a bit of will-power.

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Be like a tree, even if people throw a stone to hurt you, drop a fruit to benefit them.

gb copy Be like a tree, even if people throw a stone to hurt you, drop a fruit to benefit them.
es copy Ser como un árbol, incluso si la gente tira una piedra a hacerte daño, deje caer una fruta para beneficiarlos.
nl copy Wees als een boom, zelfs als mensen gooien een steen om je pijn te doen, laat een vrucht aan hen ten goede komen.
fr copy Comme un arbre, même si les gens jettent une pierre de vous blesser, tomber un fruit à leur profit.
de copy Sei wie ein Baum, auch wenn die Menschen werfen einen Stein, um Sie zu verletzen, fallen eine Frucht, um ihnen zu profitieren.
CN67867 Yào xiàng yī kē shù, jíshǐ rénmen rēng shítou shānghài nǐ, fàngxià shuǐguǒ yǒuyì yú tāmen.
Sweden Var som ett träd, även om folk kastar en sten för att skada dig, släpp en frukt för att gynna dem.
rus7897 Bud’te kak derevo , dazhe yesli lyudi brosit’ kamen’ prichinit’ tebe bol’ , padeniye plod v ikh interesakh.
4523turkey Insanlar sana zarar vermek için bir taş atmak bile, onları Yardımı bir meyve damla, bir ağaç gibi.
images Siate come un albero, anche se la gente gettare una pietra di farti del male, cadere un frutto a loro favore.
indonesiaID Jadilah seperti pohon, bahkan jika orang melemparkan batu untuk menyakiti Anda, menjatuhkan buah untuk Manfaat mereka.

If your mind rests with God, nothing can harm you in this world.

gb copy If your mind rests with God, nothing can harm you in this world.
es copy Si tu mente descansa con Dios, nada puede hacerle daño en este mundo.
nl copy Als je geest berust bij God, kan niets je kwetsen in deze wereld.
fr copy Si votre esprit se repose avec Dieu, rien ne peut vous faire du mal dans ce monde.
de copy Wenn dein Geist ruht mit Gott, kann dich nichts in dieser Welt zu schaden.
CN67867 Rúguǒ nǐ de xīn guīyú shàngdì, méiyǒu rènhé dōngxi kěyǐ zài zhège shìjiè shàng shānghài nǐ.
Sweden Om ditt sinne vilar med Gud, kan inget skada dig i denna värld.
rus7897 Yesli vash um pokoitsya s Bogom , nichto ne mozhet prichinit’ vam vred v etom mire.
4523turkey Aklını Allah’a aittir, hiçbir şey bu dünyada size zarar verebilir.