Shaytaan his tactic: “Wasawis, I get Bad thoughts all the time”

Source: islam.stackexchange.com

By: Tabrez Ahmed

You are not the only one who is victimized by the whispers of shaitan. Even in the time of Prophet such incidents have been witnessed.

Sunan Abi Dawood (Kitab Al-Adab) :: Hadith 5112

Narrated Abdullah ibn Abbas:
A man came to the Prophet and said: Messenger of Allah! one of us has thoughts of such nature that he would rather be reduced to charcoal than speak about them. He said: Allah is Most Great, Allah is Most Great, Allah is Most Great. Praise be to Allah Who has reduced the guile of the devil to evil prompting. Ibn Qudamah said “reduced his matter” instead of “reduced his guile”.
Ibn Qudamah said “reduced his matter” instead of “reduced his guile”.

But our beloved Prophet has assured us that unless such kind of evil whispers are ignored and the evil thoughts are not acted upon, Allah forgives us.

Sahih al-Bukhari :: Hadith 6664

Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet said, “Allah forgives my followers those (evil deeds) their souls may whisper or suggest to them as long as they do not act (on it) or speak.”

Why people are selfish

By: Oyon Ajmain

After years of being nice to people and constantly doing stuff for people without wanting anything back, I’ve finally realised what the world is really like. My dad messaged me the other day and he said “Son you need to realise that the world is not a perfect and good place, you are too naive and nice for your own good. Learn to say no.” So I tried to understand what my dad was saying and finally I realised.

There are a very few people in this world that do something for you without expecting something in return, very few people who just do something for you while knowing that you can’t do anything back for them at all. Most of the people in this world at the moment are concerned with how they’re going to make it in life and how they’re going to benefit from whatever they do. The same way when a woman wants to marry a man she tends to see if the man is giving her what she wants in terms of finance, good looks or moral support. If a woman marries a husband for financial stability and then the stability dissapears, then the woman will also dissapear and that’s how life is. That is how most human beings think at the moment.

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Never get involved with anyone who constantly talks bad of other people. You’ll get pulled into it.

 Never get involved with anyone who constantly talks bad of other people. You’ll get pulled into it.
 Nunca involucrarse con alguien que constantemente se habla mal de otras personas. Usted consigue tirado en ella.
 Nooit mee te doen met iemand die voortdurend praat slecht van andere mensen. U zult raken in het.
 Ne jamais s’impliquer avec quelqu’un qui parle constamment mauvais d’autres personnes. Vous aurez tiré dedans.
 Nie zu engagieren mit jedem, der ständig redet schlecht von anderen Menschen. Sie werden hineingezogen zu werden.
 Cóng wèi shèzú yǔ rènhé rén shuí bùduàn de qítā rén de tánhuà huài. Nǐ huì bèi lā jìnqù.
 Aldrig hålla på med någon som ständigt talar illa om andra människor. Du kommer att få dras in i den.
 Nikogda ne uvlekat’sya s temi, kto postoyanno govorit plokho o drugikh lyudyakh . Vy budete vtyanuty v neye.
 Sürekli diğer insanların kötü konuşuyor herkes ile yer almak asla. Bunu içine çekti alırsınız.
 Mai coinvolto con qualcuno che parla sempre male di altre persone. Avrai tirato in esso.
 Jangan pernah terlibat dengan siapa saja yang terus-menerus berbicara buruk orang lain. Anda akan mendapatkan ditarik ke dalamnya.

If you constantly expect the worst, you end up preempting the future with your negative attitude.

 If you constantly expect the worst, you end up preempting the future with your negative attitude.
 Si esperas constantemente lo peor, se termina adelantarse al futuro con su actitud negativa.
 Als je voortdurend het ergste verwachten, je uiteindelijk ontkrachten de toekomst met uw negatieve houding.
 Si vous vous attendez toujours au pire, vous vous retrouvez préempter l’avenir avec votre attitude négative.
 Wenn Sie ständig mit dem Schlimmsten rechnen, beenden Sie die preempting Zukunft mit Ihrer negativen Einstellung.
 Rúguǒ nǐ bùduàn de xiǎngdào zuì huài de dǎsuàn, nǐ jiéshùle nǐ de xiāojí tàidù, qiǎngzhàn wèilái.
 Om du ständigt förvänta sig det värsta, hamnar man gripa framtiden med din negativa attityd.
 Yesli vy postoyanno ozhidat’ khudshego , vy v konechnom itoge uprezhdaya budushcheye s negativnym otnosheniyem.
 Eğer sürekli kötü bekliyorsanız, sizin negatif tutum ile geleceği preempting sonunda.
 Se si aspetta sempre il peggio, si finisce per precludere il futuro con il vostro atteggiamento negativo.
 Jika Anda terus-menerus mengharapkan yang terburuk, Anda akhirnya preempting masa depan dengan sikap negatif Anda.

What you fear will not go away by constantly thinking about it, it will go away when you see it for exactly what it is.

 What you fear will not go away by constantly thinking about it, it will go away when you see it for exactly what it is.
 Qué temes no va a desaparecer por pensar constantemente en ella, que va a desaparecer cuando lo ves exactamente lo que es.
 Wat je vreest zal niet verdwijnen door voortdurend te denken, zal verdwijnen als je het ziet voor wat het precies is.
 Qu’est-ce que vous craignez ne va pas disparaître en pensant constamment à ce sujet, il ira loin quand vous le voyez exactement ce que c’est.
 Was Sie fürchten, geht nicht weg von ständig daran zu denken, wird es weg, wenn Sie es für genau das, was es ist.
 Nǐ dānxīn huì bù huì bèi bùduàn de sīkǎo tā xiāoshī shénme, tā huì zìdòng xiāoshī, dāng nǐ kàn dào tā dàodǐ shì shénme.
 Det du är rädd kommer inte att försvinna genom att ständigt tänka på det, kommer det att försvinna när du ser det för exakt vad det är.
 Что вы боитесь не будет уходить, постоянно думая об этом, он уйдет, когда вы видите его на то, что это такое.
 Ne olduğunu tam olarak ne için onu görünce sürekli bu konuda düşünerek gitmeyecek ne korku, uzak gidecek.
 Che cosa hai paura non andrà via da sempre pensarci, se ne andrà quando lo si vede esattamente per quello che è.
 Apa yang Anda takut tidak akan pergi dengan terus-menerus berpikir tentang hal itu, ia akan pergi ketika Anda melihat untuk apa itu.

NEGATIVE INFLUENCES OF CELEBRITIES ON TEENS

Technology has given people easy access to everyone’s lives. Fans are able to feel a part of their favorite celebrity’s everyday life by tracking their whereabouts. They feel up-to-date on what is happening in their lives. Thus, giving them a connection and a sense of closeness to celebrities. The ability to constantly know what is happening with celebrities—what they are wearing, where they are going, and what they are interested in—affects how society lives their lives. People feel the need to emulate their favorite star, so they imitate their clothes, accessories, and even attempt to attend the same type of places.

Teenagers are the most common people trying to copy their idols. Celebrities have the easiest time influencing teens because they are so vulnerable. Teenagers are in search for self-esteem, their identity, and a “cool” self-image. All of these aspects of a teenager’s life are detrimental to who they will become. The power of the celebrity has taken control of these teens and ended with negative influences.

A teen needs to satisfy his need for love, acceptance, and success in order to experience high self-esteem. He gains his self-esteem by pleasing his parents, peers, and society. This is a time in an adolescent’s life where they feel the most need for acceptance. This need for acceptance drives teens to be more experimental, innovative, and sometimes controversial. They are at a time in their life where they keep reinventing themselves. They may start out as a jock, then become a punk, then preppy, and so on and so forth.

According to Teenager Research Unlimited, fun is the number one description for the teenage generation. Teenagers emphasize freedom, yet do not want to take on the responsibilities and obligations of adults. Fun links the teens to experimentation with illegal or illicit substances. Their ideas on life are more in the clouds than in reality. Teens are thinking, dreaming, and even planning a few years ahead. This, in turn, is making celebrities a few years older than them more desirable. Teens are fans of Miley Cyrus, who was caught on film smoking marijuana, Paris Hilton and Lindsay Lohan, who went to jail for drinking and drugs. Teens consider this to be okay, and do not let instances like this hinder their idols’ likeability.