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Quarreling never settles disputes
By: Eddie
The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The most hated man (person) to Allah is the one who is the most quarrelsome of the opponents.” [Sahih Bukhari]
Quarreling never settles disputes. Extricate yourself from quarrels as soon as possible. Allah (subhana wa ta’ala) does not like either of quarreling opponents, but the more quarrelsome one is the more hated to Allah (subhana wa ta’ala).
Keep this checklist in mind if a quarrel seems to be in the offing:
1. Let your opponent have the last word (ostensibly). In reality, the one who is quiet is the one who is defended eloquently by angels.
2. Stop trying to prove that you’re right.
3. Accept blame where the fault is yours.
4. State your position just once and then listen.
5. Before the blaming becomes unbearable, politely, either change the topic or physically leave the place of argument.
6. Remember that all cases will be reopened and settled on the Day of Judgement, and on that day none will be able to lie, trick or deceive in any way, to support their position.
Judging Islam on the basis of a few Muslims is like eating a rotten fruit and blaming the whole tree.
Judging Islam on the basis of a few Muslims is like eating a rotten fruit and blaming the whole tree.
A juzgar Islam sobre la base de unos musulmanes es como comer una fruta podrida y culpar a todo el árbol.
Afgaande islam op basis van een aantal moslims is als het eten van een rotte vrucht en het beschuldigen van de hele boom.
A en juger l’Islam sur la base de quelques musulmans, c’est comme manger un fruit pourri et de blâmer l’arbre tout entier.
Islam urteilen auf der Grundlage von ein paar Moslems ist wie Essen eine faule Frucht und die Schuld den ganzen Baum.
Yīxiē mùsīlín de jīchǔ shànglái kàn yīsīlán jiào shì xiàng chīle làn shuǐguǒ hé zhǐzé zhěnggè shù.
Att döma islam utifrån några muslimer är som att äta en rutten frukt och skylla hela trädet.
Sudya islam na osnove neskol’kikh musul’man , kak yest gnilyye frukty i obvinyat’ vse derevo.
Birkaç Müslümanların temelinde İslam’ı bakılırsa bir çürük meyve yeme ve bütün ağaç suçlamak gibi.
A giudicare l’Islam sulla base di alcuni musulmani è come mangiare un frutto marcio e incolpare tutto l’albero.
Menilai Islam atas dasar beberapa umat Islam adalah seperti makan buah busuk dan menyalahkan seluruh pohon.
You made your choices to get where you are in life, stop blaming others for your misfortune & choose wisely next time.
You made your choices to get where you are in life, stop blaming others for your misfortune & choose wisely next time.
Usted ha hecho sus opciones para llegar a donde usted está en la vida, dejar de culpar a otros por su desgracia y elegir sabiamente la próxima vez.
Je hebt je keuzes gemaakt om te komen waar je bent in het leven, stop anderen de schuld te geven voor je ongeluk en kies verstandig de volgende keer.
Vous avez fait votre choix pour arriver là où vous êtes dans la vie, arrêter de blâmer les autres pour votre malheur et de choisir judicieusement la prochaine fois.
Sie haben Ihre Entscheidungen zu gelangen, wo Sie im Leben stehen, zu stoppen, anderen die Schuld für Ihr Unglück und wählen Sie mit Bedacht das nächste Mal.
Nǐ ràng nǐ de xuǎnzé ràng nín shēn zài hé chù shēnghuó, tíngzhǐ zhǐzé biérén duì nǐ de bùxìng hé míngzhì de xuǎnzé xià yīcì.
Du gjorde dina val för att komma dit du är i livet, sluta skylla på andra för din olycka och välja klokt nästa gång.
Vy sdelali svoy vybor , chtoby poluchit’ , gde vy nakhodites’ v zhizni, perestat’ obvinyat’ drugikh v svoikh neschastiy i vybirat’ mudro sleduyushchiy raz.
Eğer hayatta nerede, sizin talihsizlikleri için başkalarını suçlamak durdurmak ve akıllıca bir dahaki seçim zamanı almak için seçimler yaptı.