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Steps to Love and Romance in Islam

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Source: perfectmuslimwedding.com

By: Shaikh Abdul Rahman Murphy

  1. There are 4 types of maturity: Financial, Spiritual, Physical, and Emotional. For most people they are lacking 2 of the 4.
  2. Emotional maturity is very important. How will you deal with situation if you lose job, wife can’t get pregnant, how you handle in-laws, etc. Ask yourself “Am I emotionally mature to live with someone who has different likes/dislikes?”
  3. You don’t have the right to judge without having communicated.
  4. Married life is about Mawada and Rahma (Mercy).
  5. If there is physical or verbal abuse, see a counselor.
  6. In a Muslim home there needs to be an attitude of gratitude. Think what your spouse and kids are doing, not what they are not doing. Kids thank parents. Parents thank kids.
  7. Romance between spouses is religious. The Prophet (SAW) said in a Hadith when asked who he loved most, it was Aisha (RA). When asked from men, then, “her father” reference still being her. He (SAW) had a nickname for her “Aish.” Find out what your spouse’s likes and dislikes are. Flowers and chocolates may work, but may not.
  8. Compromise is the mortar of marriage. It holds the bricks together and makes it strong. Prophet (SAW) gave in to his wives on small wishes, but never sacrificed on principles.
  9. Number one cause of divorce in the US is money. This is why Financial maturity is important.
  10. Part of the rizk (sustenance) you have been given is your health. That is physical, mental, and spiritual. You can’t neglect any of them.
  11. When you get angry, follow the Hadith, “The strong one is who controls himself in anger.” This requires self-control and discipline.  Make wudu as water cools the fire that rages from anger.
  12.  Put Allah back in the equation. When we look at a relationship we only think of 2 people.  Don’t treat people the way they are meant to be treated. Ask yourself how are my prayers? Those who pray together, stay together.
  13. Make dua like you mean it.

Other things a husband can do to do to keep the spark of love alive from Sh. Faraz Ibn Adam:

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Israel’s criminal regime – Netanyahu’s lies exposed (Video)

info-pictogram1 Israel’s criminal regime exposed. Netanyahu’s lies exposed. More and more people find the true about Israel and are against this terrorist state. They become angry. They oppose the tyranny. Shocking video.
More documentaries…

How A Drone Caused A Riot In Serbia (Video)

info-pictogram1 Serbia’s Euro 2016 qualifying match against Albania in Belgrade turned into a riot thanks to a remote controlled drone and plenty of angry soccer fans.

Fake God: An earthquake took off its head & fingers!

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What kind of God is that which cannot even defend itself?

Say: ‘Shall I tell you of a reward with Allah far worse than that: that of those whom Allah has cursed and with whom He is angry–turning some of them into monkeys and into pigs–and who worshiped false gods? Such people are in a worse situation and further from the right way.’ (Quran 5:60)

The Trews: Who’s More Dangerous, Russell Brand Or Fox News? (Video)

info-pictogram1 “The Fox News Five are still angry with Ol’ Russ. But who wants us to live in fear and hate – me or Fox News? You decide.

Bomb Gaza: the ‘disgusting’ games on Google’s app store

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By: Matthew Sparkes

Source: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/

Google is facing angry criticism for allowing “absolutely disgusting” violent games based on the bombing of Gaza to be hosted on its Play app store.

Smartphone games such as Gaza Assault: Code Red are available openly on the store, where the player takes control of an Israeli drone equipped with “powerful weapons” over Gaza. A description of the Android game says: “Terrorist cells are launching rockets into your country, do you have what it takes to protect your citizens?” The software allows users to play for first five levels for free, but then charges for a full version.

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“We watch so many movies that pictures we see from Gaza are almost the same concept, just a dead body behind a screen”

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By: Mohammed Zeyara

People are desensitized to pictures from Gaza’s massacres now.” Wait what? Allow me to say something. Growing up in the west, the only massacres we’ve seen are massacres in movies. We watch so many movies that pictures we see from Gaza are almost the same concept, just a dead body behind a screen. So we didn’t just get desensitized, most of us have always been desensitized. To the people who keep telling me do not share. I know and understand where you’re coming from, and I will try to take your advice. Please understand I’m currently fighting between my emotions and my professionalism. But I grew up across the street from Al-Shifa Hospital. The sirens of the ambulances used to wake us up almost every morning. My friends and I used to always play in Al-Shifa’s garden. And we’ve witnessed all these images in real life. And when you witness these things in real life, it’s a total different story than just a picture. After seeing bodies come through the doors of al-shifa doors, then I would go home to check the news, I saw absolutely nothing. The news always hid the killings in Gaza just like they are hiding many oppressions happening now in Syria, Burma and Pakistan. So I got angry, and I still am. I promised to show the world what the eyes of Gaza see everyday. Because when you see the pictures online, there is a whole story behind the picture, not just a dead body. There was love, happiness, compassion, dreams, goals that were killed when the soul left that body. Do not just look at how horrible the picture looks, the concept is far more greater than that.

I hope you understand.

The problem does not get resolved by getting angry, the solution comes when you learn to calm the mind to see clearly.

gb copy The problem does not get resolved by getting angry, the solution comes when you learn to calm the mind to see clearly.
es copy El problema no se resuelve por enojarse, la solución viene cuando aprendes a calmar la mente para ver con claridad.
nl copy Het probleem wordt niet opgelost door boos te worden, komt de oplossing wanneer je leert om de geest te kalmeren om duidelijk te zien.
fr copy Le problème ne se résolu par se mettre en colère, la solution vient quand vous apprenez à calmer l’esprit de voir clairement.
de copy Das Problem tritt nicht immer wütend gelöst bekommen, die Lösung kommt, wenn Sie lernen, den Geist zu beruhigen, klar zu sehen.
CN67867 Wèntí bù dédào yóu shēngqì jiějué, jiějué de bànfǎ shì dāng nǐ xuéhuì xīnjìng kàn qīngchu.
Sweden Problemet blir inte löst genom att bli arg, kommer lösningen när du lär dig att lugna sinnet att se klart.
rus7897 Problema ne razreshayutsya putem serdit’sya , resheniye prikhodit , kogda vy uznayete , chtoby uspokoit’ um, chtoby videt’ yasno.
4523turkey Açıkça görmek için zihin sakin öğrenmek zaman sorun sinirlenen tarafından çözüldü almaz, çözüm geliyor.
images Il problema non viene risolto da arrabbiarsi, la soluzione arriva quando si impara a calmare la mente di vedere chiaramente.
indonesiaID Masalahnya tidak bisa diselesaikan dengan marah, solusinya datang ketika Anda belajar untuk menenangkan pikiran untuk melihat dengan jelas.

The strong man is the one who controls himself when he gets angry. (IMAGE)

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